Children who grow up under coercive control are navigating two worlds — one built on fear, and one built on safety. And when they come home dysregulated, explosive, or even aggressive, it’s not because they’re “bad”… it’s because they’re surviving. What you’re seeing is control in the context of no control, just as Dr. Evan Stark describes. Your child is being controlled by the abuser — and simultaneously fearing that if they don’t align, they’ll face the same punishment, rejection, or contempt
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Coercive control isn’t “invisible abuse.” It’s the foundation of all abuse — the slow, intentional erosion of autonomy, safety, and connection. 💔 Many abusers don’t need to use violence — their psychological tactics work just as well. And when children are caught in it, their painful words or behaviors aren’t rebellion — they’re survival. In this video, Dr. Christine Cocchiola — researcher, advocate, and protective parent — shares how narcissistic abuse and coercive control intersect, and why u
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Children of abusers often come home repeating the same words, tone, and accusations they’ve heard from the coercive parent. It’s painful — but it’s not their voice. It’s a recording the abuser installed. Dr. Christine Cocchiola shares how protective parents can diffuse these moments without fueling the conflict: 💬 Respond calmly. 💬 Don’t engage the attack. 💬 Disarm the pattern with empathy and understanding. Every time you refuse to ignite the fire, you weaken the abuser’s control and strengt
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The Predatory Parent Choosing their Prey 4 Traits: Narcissism, Machiavellian, Psychopathy, Sadism I see these patterns of behavior - coercive control – being exerted every single day on the children in these family systems . Children are Perfect Prey - like my podcast suggests: They are the ideal victim. They want nothing more than to please their caretakers – and when one caretaker is very powerful – well it’s like going into the den with a wolf - they may acquiesce or even a line with the wolf
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