Escape Plan: Step 8 Map the House If you’re still living with an abusive partner, one of the most important safety steps you can take is to map your home with survival in mind: ❌ Avoid the kitchen. Too many weapons within reach. ❌ Avoid bathrooms. A door with a lock feels safe, but it’s a trap with no second exit. ✅ Keep your phone on you always. ✅ If they start yelling: agree, apologize, de-escalate ✅ Know every exit. Front door, back door, garage access, ground-level windows. ✅ Mentally rehear